written February 8, 2011
I recently took a parenting class. We were told that at this age (approx. 3-5 years) kids do not understand lying and that whatever they make up, they believe is true. They believe in the power of words and so if they say it, it will actually happen.
Well, Andrew spent this morning stamping a red ink “smiley sun” on the bathroom door. When I confronted him about it, he claimed that he did not do it but rather a ghost held his hand and stamped the door.
A ghost? This was no surprise to me that it was a ghost of all things that forced this naughty deed – apparently there are ghosts everywhere in my house at all hours of the day and night. It’s a wonder anyone gets any sleep for fear of being overrun!
Did he believe a ghost had made him do it? Absolutely. You could feel his surety. Did I call him a liar? Nope, I just asked that he help clean it up and to let the ghosts know that there would be no more stamping on anything besides paper.
He promptly turned around and scolded the air.
2 comments:
Love it! I am always surprised at the interesting lies that can come from a child. :)
Hey Rebecca,
It's Kina (Brierley) Scott. I was blog-stalking and ran into yours! Do you mind if I read it? I remember you were an INCREDIBLE YW leader, one that I always felt I could talk to or consult with, and that it was always a treat when you taught the lessons. I just wanted to thank you for that, you really were and are someone I feel I could aspire to be like (especially after reading how AWESOME a mom you are from your blog!) Plus, I remember holding Ethan when he was just days old, what a treat to see how grown up he and your other babies are (so cute, nice job!)! Anyway, I think I'll follow your blog, with your permission. You're welcome to read mine- it's private so I'll need your email- if you want, but no offense taken if you don't want to! Take care!
Kina
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